I’ve encountered many challenges in my journey of faith as a pastor and spiritual leader. One of the most pervasive and destructive forces I’ve seen in the body of Christ is the spirit of Jezebel. Today, I want to share with you a powerful message about recognizing this spirit, breaking free from its influence, and stepping into the freedom God has for you.
Understanding the Spirit of Jezebel
The spirit of Jezebel is not just a historical reference; it’s a very real and active force in our world today. In Revelation 2:18-29, Jesus himself warns about the influence of Jezebel in the church. This spirit operates in all spheres of influence – business, arts and entertainment, government, and yes, even in the church.
Key Characteristics of the Jezebel Spirit
1. It does not want to be under authority
2. It desires to teach, not be taught
3. It seduces people away from truth and safety
One of the most striking things about this spirit is its ability to make people wander aimlessly, as if they’re lost. Many Christians today feel directionless, unsure of God’s plan for their lives. This confusion is often a sign of the Jezebel spirit at work.
The Dangers of Narcissism in the Church
Closely related to the spirit of Jezebel is the issue of narcissism. Both overt and covert narcissism can be incredibly damaging in Christian communities.
Overt vs. Covert Narcissism
Overt narcissism is easier to spot – it’s loud, demanding, and obviously self-centered. Covert narcissism, however, is more subtle and often disguises itself as false humility or victimhood.
In the story of Ahab and Jezebel (1 Kings 21), we see both types at play. Jezebel represents overt narcissism, boldly taking what she wants. Ahab, on the other hand, displays covert narcissism through his sulking and self-pity.
Signs You’ve Been Affected by Narcissistic Abuse
If you’ve been under the influence of narcissistic leadership or relationships, you might experience:
1. Doubting whether the abuse even took place
2. Feeling isolated
3. Feeling frozen or unable to take action
4. Constantly feeling like you’ve done something wrong
5. Unexplained physical ailments
6. A sense of having lost yourself
Breaking Free from Jezebel and Narcissistic Influence
The good news is that freedom is possible! Here are some steps to break free:
1. Recognize the Problem
The first step is acknowledging the presence of these toxic influences in your life. Be honest with yourself about the patterns you’ve experienced.
2. Repent and Renounce
If you’ve come into agreement with the spirit of Jezebel or narcissistic tendencies, repent and renounce those agreements. Pray something like this:
“Heavenly Father, I thank you for the blood of Jesus that washes me clean and renews me. I surrender my life to Jesus. I repent of all pride and narcissism. I renounce the spirit of Jezebel now. I break and release myself from every generational curse of Ahab and Jezebel by the blood of Jesus. In Jesus’ name, I am free.”
3. Seek Healing and Deliverance
Don’t be afraid to seek help from mature believers or professional Christian counselors. Sometimes, we need others to help us see our blind spots and pray for our deliverance.
4. Embrace Your True Identity in Christ
As you break free from toxic influences, focus on embracing your true identity as a child of God. You are not defined by your past experiences or the labels others have put on you.
The Power of Forgiveness in Breaking Free
One of the most powerful tools we have in breaking free from the spirit of Jezebel and narcissistic abuse is forgiveness. Unforgiveness often manifests as bitterness, which the Bible warns can defile many (Hebrews 12:15).
Take time to forgive those who have hurt you. This doesn’t mean what they did was okay, but it releases you from the bondage of bitterness. Speak it out loud: “I forgive [name] for [specific action].”
Restoring Safety and Trust in the Church
For many who have experienced spiritual abuse, feeling safe in a church environment again can be challenging. As a pastor, I want to create an atmosphere of safety and trust. Here are some ways we can do this:
1. Encourage open communication
2. Practice mutual submission and accountability
3. Value each person’s unique gifts and contributions
4. Foster an environment of grace and forgiveness
The Beauty of Humility in Leadership
True spiritual leadership is marked by humility. My wife Julie recently demonstrated this in a powerful way. She came to me and voluntarily laid down her title of co-lead pastor, recognizing that it was causing confusion and wasn’t necessary for her to fulfill her role in our church.
This act of humility isn’t about diminishing her value or role but about creating clarity and demonstrating the freedom we have in Christ. It’s a beautiful picture of the bride of Christ surrendering fully to Jesus, and in turn, being empowered with all the authority of the kingdom.
A Call to Freedom and Revival
As we break free from the spirit of Jezebel and narcissistic influences, I believe we’re stepping into a new season of revival. The Lord has shown me that this fall, we’re going to experience an incredible move of God. But to sustain it, we need to get things right in our hearts and in our churches.
Here’s what I believe the Lord is saying:
- Stop looking at the fires of destruction behind you and start looking forward to the fires of revival ahead.
- Goodness and mercy are chasing you in this season.
- You’re called to be the salt of the earth, not a pillar of salt – don’t get stuck looking back!
Practical Steps for Moving Forward
As we conclude, I want to give you some practical steps for moving forward:
- Stay connected to a healthy church community: Jezebel hates congregations. Don’t isolate yourself.
- Be quick to listen, slow to speak: James 1:19 gives us a formula for unity in the kingdom.
- Guard your heart and mind: Be careful about what influences you allow into your life, including social media and entertainment.
- Pursue humility: True freedom often comes when we lay down our need for titles and recognition.
- Seek the Holy Spirit’s guidance: He will teach you all things and guide you into all truth.
- Practice forgiveness regularly: Don’t let bitterness take root in your heart.
- Celebrate others’ successes: Break free from the spirit of competition that often accompanies Jezebel and narcissism.
Remember, the journey to freedom is often a process. Be patient with yourself and others as you navigate this path. The important thing is that you’re moving in the right direction, towards greater freedom and intimacy with Christ.
As we close, I want to remind you of the truth found in John 8:36: “So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” Claim that promise for your life today. You are not bound by the spirit of Jezebel, narcissistic abuse, or any other toxic influence. In Christ, you are free to be who God created you to be.
Let’s pray for this freedom to manifest in our lives, our churches, and our communities. I believe we’re on the cusp of a powerful move of God, and as we break free from these hindrances, we’ll see revival fire spread like never before.
Are you ready? The best is yet to come. Let’s step into this new season of freedom and revival together!
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