Have you ever wondered why you struggle with the same issues as your parents? Why anxiety seems to run in your family like an unwelcome inheritance? The hard truth is that generational thoughts become generational behaviors. These behaviors eventually transform into actions, actions into sin, sin into iniquity, and ultimately, iniquity becomes identity, opening the door to deeper struggles.
I’ve seen this pattern play out time and again in my own life and in the lives of countless others I’ve counseled. Today, I want to share how we can break free from these generational cycles of anxiety and reclaim the peace that should be ours.
The Real Problem Isn’t What You Think
When I was trapped in addiction years ago, I thought alcohol was my problem. But I was wrong. Alcohol wasn’t the problem, it was my bad solution to a deeper issue. The same applies to anxiety, depression, and fear.
Your thought life is the true battleground. Show me your thought life, and I’ll show you your entire life, because your life is simply a reflection of your thoughts. Everything you experience results from what’s happening in your mind, and you have far more control than you realize.
One of the fruits of spiritual growth is self-control. The more you align with higher principles, the more control you gain over your entire life. It’s no longer about what was done to you, but what you are doing with your life.
Breaking Free From Your Inherited Thought Patterns
I started life in a trailer park in extreme poverty. My parents’ marriage was broken, and my father later committed murder. I inherited nothing materially, but received everything in terms of trauma and dysfunctional patterns.
But my life is a testimony that you don’t have to remain a victim. You can become victorious by changing your thought patterns. The words you speak matter. You’ll ultimately eat your words and have what you say. Your tongue directs your life like a small rudder determines a ship’s direction.
However, the problem isn’t just your tongue; it’s your thought life. In ancient wisdom traditions, the mind and heart are considered synonymous. This is why guarding what enters your mind is so crucial.
Guard the Gates of Your Mind
Think about this: Your eyes are literally an extension of your brain. When you look someone in the eyes, you’re essentially looking into their brain. Yet how many of us carefully monitor what we consume through our eyes?
It’s ironic that we’ll spend extra money on organic food for a body that will eventually die, but we’ll consume anything and everything through our eyes, which feeds our eternal soul.
Our phones are menus too. We’re constantly “eating” through our eyes. Young men should never have been allowed to see hundreds of women in bikinis before lunch. And what happens when they later compare their wives’ bodies, bodies that bore their children, to thousands of women who never did?
We need to guard the gates of our minds and understand the long-term implications of what we consume visually and mentally.
The Process of Renewing Your Mind
In Romans 12:2, we’re instructed: “Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” This transformation isn’t automatic. When you experience spiritual renewal, your spirit changes, but your mind requires intentional renovation.
Many people are spiritually regenerated but not mentally renewed. This creates an internal battle that makes it difficult to discern the right path in life. How can you hear divine guidance if your mind is constantly filled with conflicting thoughts?
The Greek word for “transformed” in this passage is “metamorphosis,” which is different from maturity. Maturity is just growing up, like a 12-year-old going through puberty and eventually growing a beard. Metamorphosis, however, is a complete transformation, like a caterpillar turning into a butterfly.
When a caterpillar enters its cocoon, it melts down into a goo. One DNA expression shuts off, and another one ignites. The caterpillar must physically break out of the cocoon, which makes it strong enough to fly when it emerges.
Your Cocoon: The Place of Transformation
What’s your cocoon? For many, it’s prayer and meditation. We enter as caterpillars full of anger, bitterness, and malice. But in the quiet presence of divine connection, we melt down. Another “DNA expression” begins to emerge — fear turns into courage, bitterness into forgiveness.
When we break out of that prayer closet, that devotional time, we emerge as something new, ready to fly. This is true metamorphosis, not just maturation.
Dismantling Mental Strongholds
Think of strongholds as fortified thought patterns built brick by brick. Scientists say we have a minimum of 6,000 thoughts per day. Imagine each anxious thought as a brick: “I’m going to die early,” “I’ll never have enough money,” “I can’t trust anyone.” Brick by brick, we build walls so tall that the truth can barely reach us.
The antidote is to pull down these negative strongholds and replace them with positive ones built on truth and hope. When anxiety whispers “You’re going to die,” counter it with “I will live and declare great works.” When fear says “There’s never enough,” respond with abundance thinking.
It’s about building a different kind of stronghold; one that protects rather than imprisons.
Your Heart: The Filtration Plant of Your Family
In Proverbs 4:23, we’re instructed to guard our hearts, because from it flow the springs of life. Your heart (mind) is like a filtration plant that purifies water before it flows into homes.
When I was a teenager after 9/11, I worked at a water filtration plant on Lake Michigan. During that terrifying time, there were concerns about terrorists putting anthrax in the water supply. My boss stationed me at the front gate as the first line of defense.
This experience taught me an important lesson: if someone had managed to contaminate the water at its source, that poison would have flowed into every home in the city.
Similarly, what’s in your heart contaminates everything that flows from you. When you indulge in pornography, you might think, “I’m not doing this with my child,” but your heart is the filtration plant of your family. You poison the waters that flow into their lives through impartation.
The same applies to addiction, unforgiveness, and anger. You can’t give your kids pure water if your own heart is contaminated. That’s why purifying your thought life is crucial, not just for you, but for everyone connected to you.
Finding Peace That Guards Your Mind
Philippians 4:7 promises that “the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” Just as I guarded that water plant gate, divine peace stands guard at the gate of your mind.
When thoughts of anxiety, fear, or worthlessness approach, peace steps up and says, “I’m guarding this gate.” It doesn’t always make logical sense—that’s why it “surpasses understanding”—but it works.
This peace assures you that your needs will be met, that a way will appear where there seems to be none, that rivers will flow in your deserts. You’re not fighting alone anymore.
Breaking Free From Self-Sabotage
Many of us have been our own worst enemies. We’ve engaged in self-sabotage, beating ourselves up with thoughts like:
- “I used to be pure, but I’ve done too many wrong things.”
- “I had plans, but I wasn’t disciplined enough.”
- “I can never be normal because my family isn’t normal.”
But today, I believe there’s a divine hand grabbing your wrist, saying, “You are not allowed to hurt yourself anymore. I don’t even remember the things you keep bringing up. As far as east is from west, you’ve been forgiven.”
Stop hurting yourself. Heal. Your life matters. Your decisions matter for eternity.
Removing the Heavy Armor
Some of you have had your armor on for so long that your skin has grown into it. You’ve made your defense mechanisms your identity. But there comes a time when that armor needs to be peeled off, even though it’s painful.
David was a warrior, but he knew when to enter the stronghold and rest. The Scripture says, “He gives His beloved sleep.” Learn to take the armor off. Learn to rest.
A Call to the Cocoon
If you want to experience renewal of mind, there must be a process you submit to, a journey you undertake. This is a call to the cocoon, a call to prayer, a call to community.
Just like a bathroom renovation requires tearing out the old before installing the new, mental renovation demands demolishing old thought patterns before building healthier ones. If you put something new on top of the old, moldy foundation, everything will eventually be lost.
God is calling you to renovate. Some of you have a religious spirit that constantly brings condemnation and shame. It’s time to rip that out. Some think prayer is an obligation rather than an opportunity for divine connection. Renovate that thinking.
Becoming a Guardian at the Gate
I want to be part of a community that doesn’t gossip at the gate but guards it. I want to speak words of truth and prophesy a better story. I want to look people in the eyes and declare: “Your life will get better. Your mind will be healed. Your family will be restored.”
We’re not gossipers at the gate. We’re guardians at the gate, aligned with divine peace, declaring healing, deliverance, and promotion over each other’s lives.
Today is your day for metamorphosis. Break out of the cocoon and fly. Your transformation begins now, and the impact will extend far beyond your own life. As you change, those around you will witness the power of renewal and be drawn to experience it themselves.
Guard your gates. Renew your mind. Transform your life.
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